- Whenever possible, think about things that are far off in the future about which you can do nothing.
- When something good happens begin thinking about how it could turn sour.
- When something frightens you, avoid it, even if it is important.
- Convince yourself that everyone is paying attention to how anxious you appear.
- Consider that at any moment others might discover that you are really a fraud.
- Remind yourself often of occasions when things went badly.
- When things are bad, tell yourself that things could be worse.
- etc
Try to compile your list of phrases in generic terns by looking for the general theme of what you do that makes you more anxious. This exercise is a gentler way of addressing your chronic complaint.
1 comment:
You have a blog! How cool is that?!?
I have no idea if you remember me, but we worked together at St. Joseph's a billion years ago. Just stumbled across this while surfing around for People I Used To Know In My Former Life! I'll definitely be back to read. :-)
Post a Comment